DEAR ABBY: He ʻumikūmālima makahiki i hala aku nei ua "holo" au mai kaʻu mau keiki makua a loaʻa i ke kālā noʻu iho.Ua hiki iā lākou ke noho i loko o ka hale no ka mea ua hoʻomau wau i ka uku ʻana i kaʻu moraki.ʻO ko lākou makuakāne - koʻu ex - noho kokoke i ka ʻohana.
I kēia manawa, ʻaʻole makemake kekahi o kaʻu mau keiki e hana me aʻu a me koʻu ʻohana, a ʻaʻole makemake lākou e hana me aʻu.Manaʻo wau ua haʻalele lākou no ka mea ʻo wau ka makua hiki iā lākou ke hilinaʻi mau.Aia kekahi mea e hiki iaʻu ke hana e hoʻihoʻi i ko kāua pilina?— Pennsylvania Runaway Mama
Māmā aloha: ʻAe, e haʻi aku i kāu mau keiki ke kūʻai aku nei ʻoe i ka hale, manaʻo wau iā ʻoe i kēia manawa.Manaʻo wau e hoʻomaka lākou e "kamaʻilio" me ʻoe i ka wā e hiki ai ka ʻōlelo iā lākou.Ke hoʻomau nei ʻoe i ka uku lokomaikaʻi no ka hale i loaʻa iā lākou kahi e noho ai.Inā pono ʻoe e "holo" mai ko lākou pono ʻole, ke hana nei ʻoe i nā mea āpau.E ʻoluʻolu e kāpae i ka hoʻohana ʻana.Ua hoʻopakele ʻoe iā ʻoe iho a ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e manaʻo ʻino a hewa paha.
DEAR ABBY: Ua hoʻomaka wau e kamaʻilio me kahi kāne mai koʻu wā i hala.Makemake au iā ia.Ua hele mākou i laila i kēlā me kēia manawa a puni ka makahiki no ka mea he mau mea ko mākou ola e nānā mua ai (e like me koʻu maʻi bipolar a me ka ʻimi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo).
Eia naʻe, ua hoʻoweliweli koʻu hoa aloha e lawe iaʻu i waho o kona ola inā hoʻomaka wau i kahi pilina me ia.Ma ka ʻaoʻao hoʻokahi, ʻo kēia kanaka e hōʻike iaʻu e like me ke ahi - ma ke ʻano maikaʻi, ʻoiaʻiʻo.Akā ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole oʻu makemake e nalowale koʻu hoa aloha.He aha kaʻu e hana nei?— He koho paʻakikī ma Illinois
Aloha Koho Paʻakikī!Ua hala ʻoe i kekahi mea nui ma kāu leka.No ke aha i hoʻopaʻapaʻa nui ai kou hoa aloha i kēia kanaka?He lili ʻo ia?Ua pili paha kēia i kona pilikia?Ua hewa paha ʻoe i ka manawa hope me ia?Pehea ka hewa?Ke ho'āʻo nei kāu hoaaloha maikaʻi e hoʻopakele iā ʻoe, akā ua palaka ʻo ia.e kamaʻilio me ia.
DEAR ABBY: Ua hele mai nei kekahi hoa i ko'u hale.Hāʻawi wau i ka kofe a me kahi keke, kahi aʻu i ʻoki ai a kau i kahi pā.Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ʻaʻole ʻo ia pōloli i kēlā manawa, no laila, lawe ʻo ia i ka hale e ʻai a noi mai iaʻu e ʻōwili a waiho i loko o kahi pahu.ʻAe wau, ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā ʻaʻole wau i lohe i kēlā mea, ʻoiai ʻo ka poʻe kipa e lawe pinepine i ka ʻai hapa ʻai i ka home mai kahi hale ʻaina.ʻAʻole anei au ma ʻaneʻi, a i ʻole he kuleana koʻu e haʻalulu e like me aʻu i kēia manawa?kahaha ka wahine hookipa.
Aloha Kahaha: Inā 'ho'ohoka 'oe i kāna hana, pono 'oe e maka'ala.He ʻoiaʻiʻo kou mau hoaaloha iā ʻoe.hilinaʻi iā ia.Makemake paha ʻo ia i ka keke āu e hāʻawi aku ai, akā ke nānā nei ʻo ia i kona kaumaha a manaʻo ʻo ia e hoʻokomo ʻo ia i loko o ka pahu hau e ʻoliʻoli hou ai.ʻAʻole wau i ʻike i nā lula o ka etiquette, e like me ka mea e ʻai ʻia ai nā keke i ke alo o ka mea hoʻokipa.
Ua kākau ʻia ʻo Dear Abby e Abigail Van Buren, i kapa ʻia ʻo Jeanne Phillips, a ua hana ʻia e kona makuahine, ʻo Pauline Phillips.E kelepona iā Dear Abby ma www.DearAbby.com a i ʻole PO Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
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